It’s time we make space for men to define their own sexual identity, and acknowledge that emotions, connection, & the desire to please their partner play a significant role in men’s sexual satisfaction, rather than assume they are driven by physical pleasure, lust, & selfishness. Rather than mock & shame those men who have the courage to reject the inaccurate & harmful social attitudes surrounding male sexuality & what it means to be a “real man,” we should applaud their bravery, teach our sons to follow their example, and teach our daughters the truth: there is nothing inherently violent, dangerous, or evil about men’s sexuality. It is not something to be feared, repressed, or vilified, but is every bit as worthy of respect, honor, & celebration as its feminine counterpart.
A. Joshua W.
