If he takes care of the bills, his family in total, & loves them, maybe he needs 'king' treatment. Today there are dishwashers, saving manual work, so it is no longer a stress issue. Just my take Kristina. Imagine if he was not there on the couch & in your bed, what would you give to get him back if you truly loved him? I would do a house-full of dishes if I could retrieve what I had. But God felt he was too good for this earth. Now I have to do the dishes anyway. A caring father for your child is king in a home. Just a thought!