I am sad for your bad experience, Shannon. (my favorite writer). Hatred is self defeating and a vice. It does not solve any problems.

I know of exemplary Dads, husbands & fathers. Unfortunately there are some strayed sheep. But there is no need for hate. The world is bad enough. We should foster healing and recognize that there are boys & men that suffer horrible abuses from their spouses, bosses, military deployments and more. Thank you for sharing your feelings, but it is wrong to hate.